Help w/ styling hair?

im trying to find a hair style product that holds my hair but lightly not like hair gel that hav oily and hard kind of feeling. i want it to just lightly hold my hair for style that looks natural.

and i found

http://www.beauty-mart.com/user/catalogu...

and

http://www.beauty-mart.com/user/catalogu...

not sure which one is better or is there other kinds??

oh is hair wax something ppl use this days? or is this product for older ppl??

p.s. my hair is medium to long, oh and im a girl....oh and im 17 just so u guys kno

Help w/ styling hair?

Im 19..a cosmetologist..you can try a mousse...and that gives hold but still lets it move so its not crunchy haha dont want that :)

Or, find a styling spritz but in a med. hold...that should be good...that way, your style will stay but not crunch!!

wax is usually used on shorter hair that needs to spike up haha but you can try anything!! :)